If you follow my socials you would have known I have been on cuckold vacations for a few weeks.
This is not something we do often, but it is not our first time, so I have some experience and tips I feel I can share to help new couples who might want to try something similar.
A cuckold vacation is when you and your wife travel to meet a Bull for the whole duration of your vacation, usually few weeks, at least.
But do not confuse this with casual hooking up on a random vacation. We are talking about getting cucked, but on steroids.
Obviously you can combine both, but this article is aimed at people who are new to this and might not have the confidence or knowledge to avoid potential issues, especially when meeting new people specifically for sex in another country.
Please use your common sense and do not put yourself in any dangerous situations. Do not trust random people. People lie all the time.
Benefits of Cuckold Vacations
Vacations already put you on a chill mood where you can do whatever you want without the stress from the routine of your daily life.
Now multiply these feelings from a regular vacations by 100, because Cuckold vacations are a complete different level of freedom.
You will notice, when your wife also realizes this new freedom she has, she is going to be a completely different person during these vacations, to the point where you might not recognize her anymore.
The level of change depends from where you from and where are you going.
A cuckold couple living in a huge city with millions of people will probably not fully grasp what this is this freedom I’m talking about because they already experience it by default.
But for cuckold couples in small towns with a few thousand people, where every third person you see you have mutual friends with, traveling to a country where nobody knows you is a completely different and mind-blowing experience.
And yes, I talk mainly about privacy.
Most people keep what they do in their bedroom private for a good reason.
There is no shame in this, but when you know you are being watched and judged, no matter how much you say you do not care, it does affect you to some degree.
If some cuckolds disagree with that point because maybe they have masochistic tendencies and feel turned on by people knowing and judging, they are ignoring an important detail.
With that mindset, they completely ignore their wife’s comfort level.
Your wife might be into cuckolding, but she probably is not an exhibitionist.
She probably doesn’t want people to know… you can’t expect her to switch gear like a porn actress.
If you are in a public place with the Bull, which is the best part of such vacations, how can she fully be free to flirt, kiss, and hug him if in the back of her mind there is the fear of people finding out?
Meeting her Bull in private in a hotel room just for sex is not a counter argument.
That is just another way of being secretive, which has nothing to do with freedom, and it is a very limited cuckolding experience. (in comparison)
So in other words, the biggest benefit of cuckold vacations when you are traveling abroad is the freedom for your wife to give it everything without anything holding her back.
Just think about it.
The Location Isn’t Important
You might have wanted this summer to visit Italy for some pizza or the great weather?
But do you know any Bulls there?
No?
Then forget Italy.
You shouldn’t have pizza if your wife can’t have her Bull.
Obviously traveling to a popular summer destination is a great idea.
But your travel destination should be solely based on where the Bulls are located.
If you don’t, you are just traveling with hopes and dreams, which is fine, but you are not going to get the cuckold experience you imagine.
That is a casual hookup and that kind of experience you can get anywhere. There is no point in wasting your vacation time on that, in my opinion.
So first things first. Find the right Bull in a country you would enjoy traveling to and build a connection with him first.
The Bull is The Destination
The Bull is the whole experience of this trip, not just a part of the experience.
This is why the destination is technically irrelevant, because the Bull will make or break this experience.
So deciding who is the Bull is the most important decision you will have to take as a couple.
You will be traveling to his country where you will surrender all control to another man.
By doing that, your wife will feel his dominance, his confidence and his presence, you are in a sense giving him all the power and she can sense that.
Just that is enough to create genuine attraction for her, not just the typical hot guy attraction, but real chemistry and emotional excitement.
She is going to discover she is developing feelings for another man while she is with you.
She might feel confused about them, but this is completely natural and part of the game.
Make sure she knows that you are here to support her and there is nothing to worry about because you love her and you want her to have everything.
You as the cuckold will get freedom in return and I mean REAL FREEDOM, the kind you have never felt before.
You will have nothing to manage or schedule anymore because the Bull will control all that.
Just think how it would feel if everyday you woke up alone in your bed because your wife is sleeping with her Bull, and you don’t have to do anything all day, is this not what vacations is all about?
Key Prerequisites to Keep in Mind
To achieve the perfect cuckold vacations, you need to verify and check the potential Bulls for any red flags.
To avoid time wasters, I suggest you try and always try to create meaningful connections with the Bulls you are interested in meeting.
You cannot just travel to another country, because that random self proclaimed Bull is hot but impatience.
Men who pretend to be Bulls are easy to spot. You just need time and they will slip up one way or another. (read how real Bulls think)
This is why the best way to build any new connection is TIME and only TIME.
This is what we try to do:
Go to a website like fetlife or blacktowhite. (read Finding cuckolds for Bulls to get some idea)
Any similar website will do, you just want a community or platform with similarly open minded people, where there is user verification.
IGNORE EVERY SINGLE PERSON who is NOT VERIFIED. NO EXCEPTIONS!
Then your wife, NOT YOU, your wife, decides who she likes, taking into account their country and how easy/reasonable it would be to travel there.
For example, we live in Europe, so when we search for Bulls we only consider talking to Bulls in Europe, not in Australia or the US. You know, within reasonable distance.
When your wife finds the Bull, she starts chatting with him. Preferably taking it to voice and even better through video call after some trust is built. (I’m not big fan of texting)
You can meet anytime you feel it’s ok after you get to know him, but usually the more time you wait the more trustworthy the Bull is in my opinion.
It shows patience, stability, and understanding without being pushy. Those are all green flags in my book.
The main goal is to build trust. Check if the vibes match, confirm what you are looking for, and then everything is just a matter of good timing.
If he becomes pushy and keeps talking about when you are traveling, that is a red flag in my opinion and you should move on.
Normal people don’t just drop responsibilities and work just to go on “forced” vacations to ride someone’s dick.
That is an unreasonable ask for most, so as I just said. Move on to a reasonable Bull.
Random Tips
Some random tips that might help give you an idea of what to expect.
Get a hotel with adjacent rooms.
The whole cuck chair meme is cute and fun, but it is better to give them some privacy.
The connecting doors give them space, while still letting you peek in here and there (if they let you).
Let things happen naturally.
You might feel your wife is falling for him. Good, that means she is having the time of her life.
That was the whole point. Relax that’s great news.
Leave them alone.
The Bull the first days will do his best to accommodate you out of respect but after the second day I would suggest to leave them the two of them.
Maybe have an update here and there, and meet them for dinner at a nice restaurant, but other than that. Let them enjoy each other.
It’s an emotional rollercoaster.
This experience can trigger complex emotions that you probably not prepared for, even if you feel confident and done this before.
Jealousy, insecurity, and self-doubt are normal to feel, but be aware that their emotional impact will be stronger than you can ever anticipate.
You might even begin to question everything about your relationship, your self-worth, or the choice you made.
Be ready to be alone.
You will have hours to yourself, so try to not overthink of anything.
Just explore the culture, the city, and all the beautiful sights. You are on vacation, stop filling your mind with anything else and enjoy it.
Cucklusion
This is just my opinion based on what we kinda did to reach to this point, and it worked well for us.
Maybe some of you disagree and think this is a waste of time, but I genuinely believe filtering Bulls is the biggest UNIVERSAL safety step a couple can take.
Even though I agree the meet up can happen much faster, when traveling to another country where you probably do not even know the language, it’s hard to actually relax and let another man take control of your relationship.
The timing is up to the Bull and the couple, every person need different timing, so taking more time is always safer than going in faster than you are prepared to.
Because if you go there, to be alone while your wife is with a guy you have any doubts, no matter how small, in the back of your mind, you will enjoy nothing, become paranoid, and the cuckold experience will be ruined.
So safety above all.