You find yourself in this bizarre, newly discovered situation: your husband has come out as a cuckold, but you’re neither interested nor ready to sleep with other men.

Before we discuss how to cuckold him without involving other men, let’s clarify some essential information to ensure we’re all on the same page.

This article is aimed at wives or women in general who have been in what we might call a “normal relationship” for the past few years.

For your husband to suddenly come out as a cuckold may feel shocking to you, but it’s not new for him; he has likely struggled with this for a long time.

The fact that he’s chosen to set aside his ego, yes, the strong, masculine ego that makes this admission feel deeply vulnerable, it shows just how important it is for him that you finally know.

Why You Might Be Partly to Blame

The fact that you’ve been together for years and that cuckolding only recently came up suggests that your husband likely didn’t have this urge before meeting you or at least not during the early stages of your relationship.

So how did he develop the urge to be cuckolded by you?

It’s a complex issue, and reading more about cuckold psychology could help shed light on it, especially with the insights you’ve gained over the years in your relationship.

Usually, in my experience, situations like this arise from issues such as a lack of intimacy, a nearly nonexistent sex life, or a sense that the relationship is drifting apart with the combination of porn addiction/conditioning.

The fact that you ignored or you were not aware of these signs speaks volume to how attentive you are to him.

This may be why your husband finally broke down and told you about it, he reached his limit on how long he could keep it to himself.

He passed you the torch.

Now it’s on your hand to do what you need to do.

You Need to Take an Active Role or Else

The reason you need to take action is that, from your husband’s point of view, his hands are tied. There’s literally nothing more he can do.

This is incredibly important. If you don’t take action, he will feel ignored, frustrated, and disconnected, which can lead to growing resentment toward you.

By not engaging, you’re essentially shutting down all of his sexual urges.

And here we reach the essence of the topic.

Understandably, you’re not about to sleep with other men if that’s something you don’t want to do.

That’s not the point.

Like in every relationship, compromises from both sides are necessary.

This means your husband may need to adjust his expectations about you sleeping with other men, and you may need to acknowledge his sexual needs rather than ignoring them.

In essence, you both need to make an effort within your reasonable limits to keep each other happy.

The reality is that your husband is now officially a cuckold; you can’t change this, but you can choose to embrace it.

So, here are some ideas to explore this fantasy without involving other men.

Ideas on How To Cuck Him

Before diving into these ideas, it’s essential to keep an open mind.

Remember, cuckolding is more about the mental state than the physical.

The goal is to keep him wondering: Are you going to go through with it? Do you really mean it? Are you being truthful, or just telling him what he wants to hear?

He doesn’t necessarily need to see you sleep with other men; he can find almost the same enjoyment simply knowing that you want to.

That’s the whole point of this dynamic.

Invent a Fictional Lover

When you arrange a date with your girlfriends, don’t tell him it’s with them, say it’s with the guy you mentioned before.

Be persuasive. He might believe you, or he might not.

The idea is to keep him wondering.

Push your acting skills to the limit: create a new reality.

Ask him if he’s okay with you seeing this “other guy” and hint that things could go further.

Keep hinting that choices like your clothes or sexy lingerie are meant to impress this mysterious guy.

Ask him, as a man, what he thinks about you doing this, and encourage him to share any advice he might have for making the “date” more successful, you get the idea.

The better you play the part, the more it will drive him wild. And that’s exactly what a cuckold craves.

You can apply this to other situations, like mentioning a flirtatious coworker.

From now on, whenever you’re out, even if it’s entirely innocent, his mind will be focused exclusively on you.

Talk To Him

Talking to him is one of the most important things you can do.

I can’t emphasize enough how essential this is.

He needs to know that you’re a “slut” in both mind and soul. (Have you read the hotwife challenges? It will help you immerse yourself in this lifestyle)

This isn’t a five-minute conversation. Sit down with him and have lengthy discussions, multiple times a day if possible.

This is something you’re supposedly interested in, right?

When someone is interested in something, they usually research it online or ask an expert.

You literally have the cuckold expert at home, wouldn’t you just bombard him with questions and opinions?

That’s exactly what you should do.

Keep talking until there’s nothing left to say. If that sounds like a lot of work, remember: he’s your husband. Spending time talking together is part of that commitment. No excuses!

Give Him Tasks

Who has control in the relationship?

You, well you’re supposed to…

You can’t expect a submissive cuck to lead the way in his own submission. It doesn’t make sense, right?

You’ll never truly know if you have full control unless he’s literally doing everything you ask.

For example, making him do things that turn him on isn’t really controlling him; it’s more like playing into his fantasies.

We talked earlier about compromises. Now is the time to “exploit” his desires and be treated like a queen. Enjoy it!

This is what he wanted, isn’t it?

He’s no hypocrite, right? so put him in his place. Demand what you want, no argument, just compliance, or else.

But for this to work, you need to ensure he is mentally satisfied.

Pushing him beyond the balance between his happiness and submission won’t yield results, and you may just end up wondering why he’s not listening to you.

Break His Ego

Cuckolds want you to destroy their ego, but they won’t surrender it to you easily.

They need to be coaxed into vulnerability, bit by bit.

One effective way to do this is through verbal humiliation.

Think about it: if you’re with other men, it’s a blow to his manhood, yet it excites him.

The same effect can be achieved with words alone.

Your husband maintains a facade, a socially acceptable image of himself.

Breaking through that carefully constructed image can place him in a vulnerable, awkward position, which, over time, conditions him to feel safe showing this side of himself to you.

As a result, his ego begins to fade, and he becomes more comfortable embracing his submissive role.

• Share stories about your exes and tell him how happy you are that he’s a cuck.
• Mention friends who date men with impressive endowments (lie if needed) and how lucky they are.
• Let him know that all your friends are aware of his sexual urges, and laugh about it.
• Describe how you dream about being with another man, how you flirt with that guy at work, and what you’d do with him if given the chance.
• Ask for his advice on how to flirt with other men, and create scenarios together about what you’d do when you finally meet someone.
• Take it even further by asking questions you wouldn’t normally dare to say out loud, questions about the possibility of getting pregnant by another man or even going on vacation with someone else.

These ideas might seem unreasonable to say to a loving husband, but for a cuckold, they can be deeply exciting and provocative.

Trust me, this is just the tip of the iceberg, you can push the boundaries even further.

Chastity Lock Him

Chastity is all about control, you want his energy and focus solely on you, not on porn or other women.

By following the previous steps, you may have temporarily shifted his focus from porn back to you, but that doesn’t mean he’ll quit entirely.

To make a lasting change, you need to start controlling his sexual pleasure.

By denying him satisfaction from porn, he’ll seek fulfillment elsewhere, namely, with you.

He may argue and resist wearing a chastity cage, but you need to insist; don’t be swayed by his objections. (Remember the facade we talked about?)

Demand it; don’t simply ask.

Deep down, he craves this control and even begs for it, though his ego won’t let him openly admit it.

Introducing chastity can be a powerful turning point in your relationship.

You’ll notice him becoming more caring, attentive, and reminiscent of the man you first fell in love with.

Unlock him now and then for cleaning and to fulfill his marital duties when you desire it.

Soon, you’ll find yourselves in a sexual sync.

Important: Locking him up doesn’t mean “lock and forget“. Think of it as “lock and tease” never ignore him, but keep him yearning.

Let Him Show You What He Actually Likes

Being a cuckold is not one-size-fits-all. It comes in many variations, and you can’t possibly guess what he’s truly into.

The best approach is to let him show you.

Cuckolds often communicate differently than other men, and depending on how far along you are with the other steps, he might be more indirect about his desires.

Your husband, too, may feel uncomfortable openly expressing certain fantasies, such as the common cuckold attraction to Big Black Cocks, as he might worry about how you’d perceive him.

It’s easier for him to share these desires subtly, hoping you’ll pick up on his cues without him needing to say it outright.

Here’s what I suggest: set up a private chat app, like Telegram and ask him to send you anything he finds hot and sexy when you’re not together.

This approach will help you understand his tastes, and if you comment on everything he shares, he’ll appreciate it more than you know.

It goes without saying that it’s best to respond with amazement, enthusiasm, and a hint of desire, even bordering on wanting more.

Cucklusion

I believe these ideas are fair to both partners in the relationship, they respect the wife who doesn’t want to sleep with other men while mentally satisfying the cuckold husband.

I’m sure you can come up with many more ways to implement this dynamic, but the main idea is simple: Fake it till you make it.

In time, if you decide to sleep with other men, I’m confident your love life would improve significantly.

On the other hand, if you’re truly not interested, gradually easing back while still engaging him might be another reasonable approach.

But it’s crucial not to neglect each other’s needs; otherwise you won’t know whats the next big surprise.